Protecting their children is the responsibility of responsible parents everywhere, both legally and ethically.
The best way of protecting our children is to teach them the basic safety tips as well as how to tell right from wrong. And preaching by the example goes a long way into making sure than your child will react properly to new situations.
Nevertheless, it's always useful to have extra help. I always praise neighbors who take care of each other's children and have good communication between them. They also call each other if they see any danger in the area that might put any of the children at risk.
Technology is doing its part too. And with the development of cell phone spy technology, now you can spy on cell phone calls that your child makes or receives.
However, many parents think that it's inappropriate to spy on cell phone calls. They believe their children have a right to privacy and that when you spy on cell phone calls, you're intruding that privacy.
Of course, it all depends on the values of each person. Personally, I believe that it's completely appropriate to spy on cell phone calls when doing so will result in saving your child from danger.
For example, as children grow older, they are faced with certain dangers. Some of them are typical of their age, like bullying, depression, or biased teachers. Others are much more serious, like sexual harassment, drugs, alcohol, tobacco, etc.
But you may think that your child is safe from these because you've explained all this subjects to him and he knows what to do. That still doesn't mean that one of your child's friends isn't involved with these dangers. And if the friend is, maybe it's time to tell your son to keep his distance from that friend. By spying on his cell phone calls, you'll find out which of his friends should not be allowed in your house.
Then, there are other factors that you should take into account. Children aren't as strong-willed as we are. They are much more prone to be affected by peer pressure or emotions. Also, if someone is hurting your child, he is going to make sure to intimidate your child into silence.
Even if you still think it's unethical to spy on cell phone calls that your child makes, isn't it more unethical to risk any of these happening? Of course, it would be better if your child came to you, but these are the kind of things you really want to know even if your child doesn't talk about them.
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